Hello and welcome!

If you’re single, love Jesus and have a strong desire to be married, you’re in the right place.

Christian Dating Culture in the 21st Century is so incredibly confusing. You’re wondering if it’s ok to jump on Bumble, whether you’re really trusting God with your future if you start dating a non-Christian…

You might be a guy wondering how to tell if a girl likes you, or how to even go about pursuing her when her parents are prominent figures in your church community.

Or, if you decide you don’t want to see a girl in church anymore, what that might do to your reputation as a man just trying to do his best to find the woman of his dreams…

Or you might be an independent single woman frustrated that you have huge amounts of love to give but no opportunity to meet an eligible single guy. You don’t even think your standards are crazy-high, and yet less accomplished women around you are meeting their forever-partners and you don’t know why!?!?

I want you to know you are NOT alone!

I spent the last 5 years single and confused, despairing if God had my back because I seemed to want marriage “too much”. My leaders told me I was idolising marriage, that I was boy-crazy, and would make me feel judged for this desire I couldn’t seem to snuff out in my heart, no matter how hard I tried.

Now in my 30s, I am married to the love of my life, and I definitely did not meet him sitting passively as he walked into my church congregation!

If you’re keen to learn more about my story, here is the first chapter of an e-book I wrote for YOU.

Look around the blog and see if you vibe with me! I welcome you to DATEABILITY - a community of satisfied and seeking singles who desire healthy, life-giving and God-honouring relationships that lead to amazing marriages!

If you would like to have a private chat and take a deeper dive into what’s going on in your mind, heart and single life, we can arrange a video chat, no matter where you are in the world!

Much love,

Jess xx (Founder & Primary Dating Coach, DATEABILITY).