I am coaxing you to prioritise: BIG group social settings where you sit there awkwardly, not knowing what to say.
I firmly believe that the powerful equation of:
(a) Really Knowing Oneself
+ (b) Indiscriminately Meeting New People
+ (c) Taking Responsibility For Your Own Happiness
(will equal) = Knowing what we want in a committed romantic relationship.
If you're willing to continue reading, let me explain each part.
I'M NOT GOING TO ASK YOU HOW MANY TIMES YOU'VE TRIED AND FAILED.
Setting New Year's resolutions seems to be a much frequented activity in our culture. Fresh starts are lovely.
However, taking stock of our NY Resolution success/failure board, our emotions toward our resolutions often are associated with failure or the too-hard basket.
So what do we do?